Monday 31 March 2014

A love story..

"To the well-organized mind, death is but the next great adventure"

Today somebody died. She was the sister of my grand father, probably one of the persons who had known him the most who was alive till yesterday.

She used to come almost everyday for tea at our place. She probably wanted to spend her some time in our house, a house built by her only brother. Her story begins much earlier. Born in a humble family, she aspired to become an educated lady. If looks could kill, she was a dynamite.

She studied MA English and became a lecturer in a girls college. She wanted to be successful,an ambitious woman. An educated and a smart woman with beauty at her side , is a lethal combination. It not only gave her confidence but an appeal which could have made the straightest of trees bend. She helped everybody who came to her. She inspired a friendship within people. She was with everybody yet always a leader, a support of her friends.

One day she met him. He was an advocate, a rich man of generations. He was well respected and his opponents felt their knees weaken just by the mention of his name. He was everything a girl inspired in a man. He was a gentleman. He was orthodox. He had earned his reputation of one of the greatest men by his own merit in his twenty year career. The only problem was that he was already married. 


The first day she met him, she did not swoon. She looked at him in his eye and asked him to behave better. He found her endearing. She found him irresistible. The first meeting became a series of meetings. 

He left his wife. She was tagged as the 'other woman'. When she married him, she became the 'gold digger'. Her family resisted, yet they understood later. She then became the principal of colleges and probably one of the most respected women of the city.

She had his children later. He died his natural death. She was younger than most of his friend's widows. She lived on, sparkling in her glory. 

She started visiting our house more frequently since the last few years. She would look at her brother's photograph in our drawing room and cry. She had no memory of the recent past yet had a crystal clear memory of what happened a two decades ago. 

I met her yesterday. She died today. 

I was not close to her, yet her death makes me remember her words which she had once told me,"They may call me a 'gold digger' but I was irrevocably in love with him. I see myself in you. Don't settle for what the world hands you. Fight for you want and choose your own regrets".

I like to believe that she went to a special place where he was waiting for her. After all, an era of hers cannot end without a happy ending for she never settled what the world handed her.

Sunday 30 March 2014

Jhadhu(broom), hi 5 or a lotus..your choice?

The election times have come.
This time  I feel more empowered than ever before. I want to vote, choose a better government. I want to become a participant. I don't want to sit in the corner like my elders do and say that nothing will move here.

I am from Chandigarh. I do not keep an active interest in politics, but I don't want to sit behind and say that politicians buy votes and do what they have to do. I want to vote, even if a different party comes in power. I want the right to discus and debate. 
So I ponder. Gul Panag(AAP), Kirron Kher(BJP),  and Pawan Kumar Bansal (congress) are fighting for election here. ( I have just alphabetically mentioned the names of the candidates)

Well, so far I can tell you that Gul and Kirron are free of any criminal charges whereas Bansal,despite no charge sheet been filed, has been earlier convicted for the Railgate escapade.

While Kirron declared her assets to the tune of Rs 23.88 crore, Gul showed her assets amounting to Rs 5.5 crore. Gul has liability in the shape of loans amounting to Rs 21 lakh.

Bansal along with his wife has assets worth 7.7 crore . 

So in the terms of assets Gul Panag has the lowest amount of assets and Kirron the highest.

Gul and kirron are both first time candidates and Bansal has been a seasoned politician. If he wins this will be his fourth term at a stretch. Frankly, Bansal's  work is worth mentioning. He has helped the power issue and has brought more organisation. There is a 24x7 power service departments. There is an intimation of power breaks if any. We have e-Governance cells called Sampark all around. The chandigarh election commission have started working. Bansal is amongst  a common man here. The only blot is his rail gate scandal.

All of them are graduates from Panjab University. It strikes a personal chord with me because pretty soon,I will be one of the graduates from PU.(does that make my entry into politics a possibility?)

Gul and Kirron, apart from their dimples are both known for their elegance, with the former being a beauty queen and the latter being a theatre stunner. Bansal, whereas has more wrinkles. He is a smart old man and makes you feel like talking to a veteran who is always smiling and knows what it takes. He gives you a feeling of the 'uncle who goes to the office every day and does his work in the office'. He would probably come back and watch the news and would probably give every youngster who comes across him a lecture on 'good Heath' and 'early to bed, early to rise' kind of lectures.( now that I am thinking, wasn't it Bansal's tenure in which the culture is Pubbing and Clubbing in the city is getting so popular? Ironic)

As a citizen I will always be in two minds whether kirron is in Mumbai for judging her reality show. Gul would probably be somewhere acting in a parallel cinema film. Pawan would be in the office or talking health benefits with passer bys. 
It's a tough call. Can we punish peopl for their lack of experience? That's way no new comer would ever stand for elections? Can the angst and guts shown by kirron while running away to become an actress be ignored? Can Gul Panag's confident and determined smile to change the world be ignored? Can Bansal's consistence to improve our city be left aside in front of his rail gate scam?

This is our time to decide and What a decision we have to make! This has our and our next generation's destiny involved. May the best candidate win!


Saturday 22 March 2014

Dream of Paradise!

The Bing dictionary defines "Paradise" as

1. place or state of perfect happiness: a place, situation, or condition in which somebody finds perfect happiness
2. heaven: in some religions such as Christianity, Islam, and Judaism, the place where good people are believed to go after death, or the state they are believed to attain after death
3. Garden of Eden: in the Bible, the perfect garden where Adam and Eve were placed at the Creation

I like the first definition better. I think I would have more control on it but then nothing is perfect. Even, the perfect rose has its thorns. Who knows, who gave it those thorns. Probably some animal might have gotten attracted to the rose and tried to pluck it. To safeguard her self interests, she grew thorns, a self defense mechanism to keep the poets away.

Coldplay got it right when it sang the song "Paradise". It has perfect lyrics, music and vocals.

I am looking for that paradise. What should I do?

Actually its a new runway. Lets run away and never look back, till we find paradise.!